The Mama Blog

January 22nd, 2012

How to be a Stress-Free Parent This Year

by Erin Kurt

A new year is about to unfold. Are you going to be in the driver’s seat as to how it unfolds? Or are you going to be a passenger in the backseat, just going along for the ride? We’ve all felt the way the latter feels. I remember when I would feel like I was a hamster running on a hamster wheel, just trying to keep one foot in front of the other. I’m not sure why I always use animals to describe how I feel, but I also remember describing myself as running around like a “chicken with it’s head cut off”. Basically, the essence of what I was feeling inside when I used to describe myself was a feeling of being out of control and just surviving. Is this TRULY the way to live life? Especially with children?

You see, when we live life like this everything seems complicated and becomes difficult. When we’re frazzled, our children seem to act up. Coincidence? Not really. When our house is cluttered and untidy, do our kids whine that they’re bored or are they hyperactive? Most often, yes. If we are always rushing from one lesson to the next, do we have a lot of extra patience for our kids? Nope. In the modern world we live in, it is very easy to let life lead us leading IT. However, imagine if you were able to actually CHOOSE how your daily life played out?

Imagine waking up before the kids and drinking a cup of warm water with lemon while you set an intention for your day.

Imagine having your kids wake up happy and get dressed quickly and easily.

Imagine having a place to put your things and your kid’s things so that you never had to be stressed and wonder where something is.

Imagine having regular routines or rituals that your family participated in each and every day or week that made you bond closely?

Life can be designed, but it takes spending some time and thought, and sometimes getting support, to make it how you would like. I encourage you to spend some time on New Year’s Day or the day after and write down three things you would like to have more of in your life this year. I’d also suggest you come up with two or three things that are not serving you and let them go – whether they be something in your schedule, your home, or your personal life such as a “friend” or an emotion.

The last part of this exercise would be to write out how you can acquire the things you want in your life. Do you need support, to hire someone, to schedule in something, to ask for help, or create a routine?

If you need a place to start with this whole exercise, here is a quick and easy activity for you. Doing this will help you see where you need to focus and then you can narrow it down even further if need be.

Read these statements and answer “yes”, “no” or “sometimes”.

1. My home feels like a cozy, calm space for me and my family, free of excess.
2. My schedule allows me to accomplish what I want.
3. I have all the time I need to replenish my energy.
4. My kids have routines that allow them to accomplish what they need to everyday.
5. I feel balanced and fulfilled, most of the time.
6. I feel like I easily provide nutritious meals for my family on a regular basis.
7. I have organizing systems in place that fully support my day-to-day life.
8. I set a good example for my children when it comes to how to live a balanced and healthy life.
9. My kids listen to me when I ask them to do something or stop doing something.

If you have much bigger dreams for your home, family, schedule, and life than where you’re at today and you finally want to be able to describe yourself as a stress-free parent, then do the exercise described above, and if need be, seek out the support you need to make your dreams a reality! Here’s to a fulfilling, meaningful and “in the driver’s seat” kind of year!

January 10th, 2012

The Predictability of Tantrums

By KJ DELLANTONIA http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2011/12/07/the-predictability-of-tantrums/
Of course you knew that kids have tantrums. But you probably didn’t know that kids who have tantrums mostly have them in a neat, predictable pattern. Michael Potegal, a neurology professor, teamed up with James Green, a developmental psychologist, to look not at what causes tantrums but at how they work. They found three standard phases (video documented on NPR’s Shots blog). Phase One: Yelling and Screaming. Phase Two: Physical Actions. Phase 3: Crying and Whining.
You probably don’t need a researcher to tell you that your kid, in the throes of a tantrum, is going to yell, scream, kick, cry and whine. But what the modern parent seems to need more than our own parents did is someone to tell them that all kids (except the rare tantrum-free few) do pretty much exactly that. That wild irrational rampage (in the particular tantrum filmed for NPR, the toddler is upset because she wants a “corner seat” at a round table) doesn’t happen because your particular child is, and perhaps always will be, incapable of accepting the reality that’s in front of her. It happens because — well, it happens. As Jenny Anderson recently wrote of her 3-year-old here at Motherlode, after listening to a teacher talk about toddlers, “the tears of rage and frustration are nothing more than emotions run amok in a brain that is not yet capable of self-regulation.”
Most of our parents already knew that. Growing up with larger average families at a time when neighbors and extended family were often closer, our parents as kids had more opportunity than many of us did to see exactly what the range of normal is for a toddler (or an engrossed pre-teen). They stepped over screaming younger siblings and cousins, and then when they had their own kids, they shrugged in a way that most of us current parents do not. We see an unhappy kid, and we act.
Katherine Ozment, who’s just written “The Age of Overparenting” in Boston magazine, puts it down to a childhood of “divorce, latchkey-kid-dom and a nonstop diet of Twinkies and television” which led her, at some point, to decide to “be a better parent” than her own parents had been. The good parent does not step over the screaming toddler — unless she has scientific research supporting the idea that letting the child get past the anger on her own is the best thing to do for them both.
There’s a flurry of research now encouraging us to do essentially that in every aspect of our kids’ lives, much of it neatly outlined in Ms. Ozment’s article (worth a read for her willingness to cop to embracing the helicopter parenting that most of us deny we ever wanted, and for the fantastic illustrations). We should ignore the worst of the tantrums, not overwhelm kids with our attention or praise, let them fail, let them be scared or worried or even unhappy. We should be more like our parents and grandparents were, and less like ourselves. We should not, probably, get all caught up in research about tantrums.
But we do (if only for the pleasure of watching an irrational tantrum performance by a child who’s not our own). Are researchers studying the arc of the tantrum a sign that the “age of overparenting” is here to stay, or that we’re trying, in our hyper-achieving, overparenting way, to move past ourselves? Can a helicopter parent, or just a parent who can’t let a tantrum alone, ever really change?

December 19th, 2011

How “Fun” Can Be Your Best Discipline Technique

from www.erinparenting.com

 

Show me any two people who have fun together frequently and I’ll show you a good relationship. People who have regular fun together like each other and most often respect one another. This is a winning combination when it comes to the parent/child relationship. If both parties feel good around each other there will be less animosity, anger, resentment and discord and more ease, comfort, respect and happiness.

To like your kids you must enjoy them regularly. And for them to respond positively to your discipline they must enjoy and like you.

Unfortunately, in the hustle an bustle of everyday life, many of the daily encounters between parent and child go something like this:

“Time to get up.”
“Here’s your breakfast. No TV until you’re done.”
“Got you backpack?”
“You don’t have time to with the dog.”
“Come on, we’re in a hurry!”
“Don’t forget your coat.”
“Love you, bye!”
How was your day? Got any homework?”
“Leave your brother alone!”
“You have to finish your vegetables if you want dessert.”
“You can play outside for 1 hour. I want you back by 8 o’clock for bed.”
“Did you brush your teeth?” Goodnight.”

Now, how much mutual enjoyment took place on this day? None. The parent saw the child as a bundle of unpleasant tasks, and the child saw the parent as a bundle of directions. No relationship can remain healthy when this kind of interaction is the only feeding it gets.

The antidote? FUN!

When I interviewed over a thousand children around the world as to what it is that their mother or father did for them that made them feel totally happy and loved they said, “Spending one-on-one time with me.”

The possibilities or shared one-on-one fun are endless. Here is a list I’ve compiled over the years after talking to children and families:

  1. Going out for dinner on a school night while everyone else stays home
  2. Going to a movie
  3. Going shopping
  4. Going for a bike ride
  5. Reading a novel aloud to them
  6. Finger painting
  7. Baking cookies
  8. Playing card/board games
  9. Going for a walk in the park
  10. Going swimming
  11. Doing a collection together (stamps, coins, dolls)
  12. Visiting a museum
  13. Planting a flower or vegetable together

Shared fun can also come in little doses throughout the day while talking, listening, expressing affection or telling jokes. The impact of these small things is astounding. Let’s redo the scenario described above to illustrate this point. This time, let’s put some FUN into it!

“Unfortunately sleepyhead, it’s time to get.” Dad rubs child’s back.”
“After you demolish your breakfast, you can watch a little TV.”
“Got you three-ton book bag?”
“Rufus sure likes you. Okay, let’ get outta here!”
“You’re moving quicker than I am this morning!”
“Good job remembering your coat, lovebug.”
“Love you, bye!”
“What was the most fun part of your day?”
“Alan, we don’t bug each other like that. You need to stop.”
“Only 1 more piece of broccoli, my sweet, and then we can enjoy a nice dessert together.”
“You can go to Ryan’s house for one hour until 8 o’clock. Have a great time!”
“Hey, welcome home, lovebug! Let’s head on up to the bathroom to brush those teeth.”
“Goodnight. I love you. See you in the morning.”

Lightening up, adding humour and spending some one-on-one time with each child each month is one of the biggest secrets to having a wonderful family life that doesn’t include a lot of stress or need to discipline. Try it and see the difference it can make! Your children will love you for it.

 

November 17th, 2011

Spend Time Together, Make New Friends, Share Happy Memories …

Holiday Toy Sale

Spend $15 and receive 10% off – Spend $40 and receive 20% off – Spend $75 and receive 30% off

 

Bring a Friend to Class in December

If your friend is NEW to Gymboree, you will receive a $20 Gymboree gift card if they enroll. Please schedule your friend’s visit with the front desk or email us.  If your NEW friend enrolls during their trial class, they will receive a parachute with their enrollment.

 

Help the Monmouth & Ocean County FoodBank

Until Dec 18, please bring in a non-perishable food item.

 

Try Another Type of Class

Always wanted to try a different type of class, December is the time to give them a try.  Just schedule with the front desk or email us.

 

Give the Gift of Gymboree!

Time spent with your child while making new friends and sharing happy memories at Gymboree is a gift worth giving (and receiving)! Gift certificates are available in any amount and may be redeemed toward

the purchase of an enrollment, a birthday party or developmental toys at Gymboree. It’s the perfect gift for a friend, family member or special someone in your life. The gift of Gymboree is one that will continue to give long after the holidays have passed! PURCHASE A GIFT CERTIFICATE TODAY!

 

Making New Friends on Facebook

We would like more Facebook Fans.  Please help us by sharing our page with your friends.  You can do this by going to the Gymboree Play & Music of Ocean & Howell, NJ facebook page and click on share which is on the bottom left side of the page.  Then insert the following “Become a fan of Gymboree Play & Music of Ocean & Howell, NJ. Once you’ve become a fan, post on Gymboree’s wall, the name of who shared this page with you.” before you click share page button.  The customer who gets the most amount (min of 5) of friends to become fans will receive a $25 Gymboree gift certificate.

Closed Dec 24-Jan 1 for classes except Dec 31st in Ocean (regular class schedule)

but we will have the following Open PlayGyms:

During these hectic holidays, take some time for the family to play together. All siblings (0-5 yrs) no charge.

Tues, Dec 27 10:15-11:30am in Ocean & Howell

Wed, Dec 28 10:15-11:30am in Howell

Wed, Dec 28 5-6:15pm in Ocean

Thurs, Dec 29 10:15-11:30am in Ocean

Thurs, Dec 29 5:15-6:30pm in Howell

Sat, Dec 31 classes in Ocean (9:15am-Lev 3, 10:05am-Lev 5/6, 10:55am-Lev 4)

Sat, Dec 31 10:15-11:30am in Howell

 

November 14th, 2011

Baby Proofing Products

A great listing of baby proofing products from Parenting.com.  Prior to installing all of these items, follow your baby and determine what he/she gets into.
1-Lower cabinet and drawer locks: KidCo Swivel Cabinet and Drawer Lock from buybuybaby.com, $4.99
2-Stove knob covers to prevent your baby from turning on a burner: Safety 1st Clear View Stove Knob Covers – 5 pack from amazon.com, $8.99
3-Oven lock: Safety 1st Oven Front Lock from babiesrus.com, $4.99
4-Toilet lid locks: Mommy’s Helper Toilet Seat Lid-Lok from amazon.com, $7.29
5-Tub spout cover: Skip Hop Moby Bath Spout Cover from target.com, $13.99
6-Corner guards and edge bumpers for coffee tables and raised fireplace hearths: Prince Lionheart Cushiony Corner Guards from buybuybaby.com, $7.99/4 pk
7-Safety gates (the hardware-mounted style for the top and bottom of staircases): KidCo Safety Gate from amazon.com, $53.44
8-Railing netting or plastic guards (if you have an open railing): 10’ Rail Net Mesh Guard by Safety 1st from buybuybaby.com, $19.99
9-Furniture straps, brackets, or other hardware that can be used to attach any heavy furniture to the wall: KidCo Anti-Tip Furniture Strap from buybuybaby.com, $3.99
10-Outlet plate covers (not the plugs, which come out too easily): KidCo Home Safety Universal Outlet Covers from amazon.com, $8.95/3 pk
11-Power strip covers: Mommy’s Helper Power Strip Cover from walmart.com, $5.54
12-Window blind cord wraps (or cut cords short, or replace them with shades): Safety 1st Window Blind Cord Wind Ups from buybuybaby.com, $1.99
13-Window guards (if your windows don’t lock securely): Guardian Angel Child Safety Window Guard from onestepahead.com, $49.95-109.95
14-Doorknob or lever-style handle covers for any off-limits areas: KidCo Door Knob Lock from amazon.com, $10.95/2 pk
15-Smoke and carbon monoxide detectors (one on each floor, near the bedrooms): Kidde Smoke & Carbon Monoxide Alarms from target.com, $30.99/2 pk
Bottom line: Assess your needs and then implement them. And by all means, don’t take any notice of others who may wonder if you are overdoing it. When your baby is at this death-defying age, there is no such thing.

November 7th, 2011

Keeping Babies Safe

I just learned about this website and wanted to share.

Keeping Babies Safe www.keepingbabiessafe.org is a 501 (c)(3) nonprofit that provides education, assistance and leadership in keeping babies safe from preventable injuries associated with unsafe cribs and unsafe sleep environments. Keeping Babies Safe offers crib and sleep safety information, safety tips, and product recall information so parents can stay informed and remain vigilant about keeping their children safe.   Keeping Babies Safe, in connection with the American Academy of Pediatrics, and the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission, created “Safe Sleep (Environments) for Babies” educational videos that are being implemented in hospitals and health clinics nationwide to reach as many new and expecting parents as possible.

  • Our videos “Safe Sleep for Babies” are the leading go-to resource for parents on how to create and maintain a safe sleep environment for baby.
  • United States authorities, Dr. Marion Burton, President of the American Academy of Pediatrics, Inez Tenenbaum, Chairman of the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission, and Joyce Davis, President of Keeping Babies Safe have come together to bring this valuable, unprecedented safety information to inform parents on how to create and maintain a safe nursery and sleep environment for all babies.
  • Safe Sleep for Babies” can be seen in full length 12.5 minute versions, and two 4-minute English and Spanish (minority outreach) versions on the Keeping Babies Safe website www.keepingbabiessafe.org
  • Keeping Babies Safe, additionally, is disseminating “Safe Sleep for Babies” videos and brochure information within hospital TV networks nationwide. NewYork-Presbyterian/Morgan Stanley Children’s Hospital and its affiliates are the first hospitals to implement “Safe Sleep for Babies.”
  • U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC) cites “more than 11 million cribs, bassinets and play yards have been recalled in the past two years for safety reasons.”
  • More infant fatalities occur in non-recalled cribs than in recalled cribs.
  • According to the CPSC’s  “Nursery Product-Related Injuries and Deaths Among Children under Age Five”
  • In 2009, there were an estimated 77,300 emergency department-treated injuries associated with nursery products.
  • Cribs/mattresses, play yards/playpens account for 25% and are the leading cause of injury among all nursery products.
  • During the three-year period 2005–2007, CPSC reported 265 deaths associated with nursery products. 67% overall deaths are as follows:
    40% (107 total or 36 annually) with cribs/mattresses.
    16% (43 total or 14 annually) with bassinets/cradles.
    11%  (29 total or 10 annually) with playpens/play yards.

Joyce Davis, President of Keeping Babies Safe, lost her son due to adding a supplemental mattress that was advertised as suitable for their popular brand of portable crib.  Keeping Babies Safe was founded to educate parents about crib, and sleep safety, and to advocate for more stringent consumer safety regulation laws to be enacted in evaluating products. “These dangers are completely preventable,” says Joyce.  “We supply reliable information to parents so they can be better informed to protect their babies.  Cribs are the most important product in your home for your baby. It’s the only place where your child is left unattended.

Keeping Babies Safe works with corporate, foundation and individual donors to fund a multi-tiered campaign that includes: distributing the “Safe Sleep (Environments) for Babies” educational videos and written materials in (English and Spanish) to parents; educating hospital personnel on safe crib and sleep practices, so they can pass this information directly to their patients; and, offering safe cribs to parents from economically-challenged environments throughout our partnered hospitals and clinics nationwide.  Since inception, Keeping Babies Safe has donated more than 2000 cribs and educational materials to: Atlantic Health Systems; Columbia University’s NewYork-Presbyterian/Morgan Stanley Children’s Hospital and their affiliates; Hackensack University Medical Center; Children’s Hospital & Research Center Oakland; Somerset Hills YMCA; Cohen Children’s Medical Center of New York (NS-LIJ Health Systems); West Virginia Right from the Start Program Statewide; New Jersey Department of Child and Family Services and South Phoenix Healthy Start and Association for Supportive Child Care in Arizona.  KBS looks forward to substantially expanding these efforts in 2011.  Please consider donating to Keeping Babies Safe.  With every $100 donation, Keeping Babies Safe is able to purchase a non full size crib and $150 a daycare crib. Both cribs comply with the new federal crib standard.

 

October 31st, 2011

Holiday Pictures at Gymboree of Ocean & Howell

No worries about waiting in a long line! Just come to Gymboree of Ocean on Friday, November 18th anytime from 4-7pm and November 19th from 1230-330pm at Gymboree of Howell.  Enjoy Open PlayGym time in addition to your appointment for Holiday Pictures.  Photographer Colette from Forever Young (foreveryoungpics.intuitwebsites.com) has graciously partnered with us for this fundraising event. Colette will be providing 5×7 prints of your child(ren).  A minimum $10 donation will be collected to benefit St Jude Children’s Research Hospital Thanks & Giving Campaign.  Please call to schedule an appointment time.

 

Ocean, 869 West Park Avenue, Ocean, 07712: 732-493-1993

Howell, 2438 Route 9 South, Howell, 07731: 732-462-4450

 

October 24th, 2011

ONE-OF-A-KIND PARTIES, FOR ONE-OF-A-KIND KIDS!

Gymboree Bare Bones Birthday includes:

  • 1-1/2 hours of party time and fun
  • A highly trained, enthusiastic Gymboree Teacher as your party leader
  • Up to 15 children
  • WE DO THE SET-UP AND CLEAN-UP
  • You just bring the food

Currently Enrolled: $189              Non-Members: $209

Gymboree Birthday Bash includes:

  • 1-1/2 hours of party time and fun
  • A highly trained, enthusiastic Gymboree Teacher as your party leader
  • Up to 20 children
  • Gymbo invitations, party bags, hats, cups, plates, napkins,

forks or spoons, and  tablecloths

  • WE DO THE SET-UP AND CLEAN-UP
  • You just bring the food

Currently Enrolled: $224              Non-Members: $249

Reserve your date today!!

Ocean: (732)493-1993         Howell: (732)462-4450

 

October 24th, 2011

Talking to Kids about Stranger Danger

from nannies4hire.com

 

Your two kids, ages four and eight years, are friendly, outgoing, and trusting.  Ordinarily, that’s a good thing.  However, you want to temper that with a little caution regarding stranger danger . . . without teaching your kids to fear people or lose the traits that are generally admirable.  How can you teach your kids about stranger danger while navigating the fine line between encouraging trust and friendliness and fostering fear and distrust?

1. Affirm to your kids that most people are kind but that there are those few people who are not. These not-kind people often look just like the rest of us: they are not easy to spot in a crowd.

2. Discuss stranger danger calmly. If you address the subject with anxiety, your kids will pick up on that and will likely mirror your anxiety.

3. Let your kids know that they need not feel fear: they just need to exercise caution and handle stranger danger situations wise. After all, having the knowledge of how to handle stranger danger situations lessens the likelihood of their victimization. (Side note: let your kids know that they cannot fully remove all risk. If your kids ultimately do fall victim, you do not want them to feel as if they are to blame for their own victimization because they failed to effectively handle the stranger danger.)

4. Tell your kids that it’s important for them to be with you, other trustworthy adults, their nanny, or a larger group of kids that they know well. One or two kids alone (no adults to watch out for them, and no larger group of kids for deterrence) are at greater risk than kids who are accompanied by adults or a larger group of kids.

5. Tell your kids that the rules are different when they are with trusted adults and when they are not. Clarify the boundaries of caution and prudence that you want your kids to exhibit when they are not with you or another trustworthy adult. These include walking briskly and purposefully (like they know where they are going and need to get there), keeping an eye on people in their immediate environment (is anyone moving closer to them?), how to say “no” and mean it, etc.

6. Provide situation specific responses that you want your kids to rely on when stranger danger may be present. Consider the following situations and suggested responses.

  • A. A stranger offers your kids money or candy. Your kids should politely say, “no thanks” and walk away promptly. If the stranger persists, your kids should run . . . and yell for help if the stranger runs after them.
  • B. A stranger offers your kids a ride home from school. Your kids should politely say, “no thanks” and walk away promptly. Your kids should never approach the stranger’s vehicle, even if just to hear the stranger’s words more clearly. If the stranger continues to try to persuade your kids to get in his/her car, your kids should run . . . and yell for help if the stranger runs after them.
  • C. A stranger sits next to your kids on the park bench. The stranger begins asking your kids a lot of questions about who they are, where they live, who their parents are, who they are with at the park, etc. Your kids should politely end the conversation and leave the park bench, seeking instead the company of others that they know. If the stranger pursues your kids, your kids should run . . . and yell for help if the stranger runs after them.
  • D. A stranger tries to strike up a conversation with your kids. When your kids try to walk away, the stranger tells your kids that he/she is feeling hurt by the rejection that he/she has just experienced. The stranger may act very sad. Make sure that your kids know that empathy is generally a good thing, but seeking to comfort someone who is manipulating them is very dangerous. Your kids should recognize this as inappropriate behavior by the stranger and continue to walk away. If the stranger persists, your kids should run . . . and yell for help if the stranger runs after them.

7. Role play these scenarios with your kids so that, if the real thing happens, they will have their responses committed to memory. In the moment of the stranger danger, your kids may feel panic. You don’t want them to have to stop and think about how to respond because the panic may prevent clear thinking. Instead, you want your recommended responses to come almost as instinct to your kids.

By following these tips, you can prepare your kids for stranger danger while navigating the fine line between encouraging trust and friendliness and fostering fear and distrust.

 

 

October 17th, 2011

Delicious Dinner Recipes for Picky Eaters Part 2

Candied Baby Carrots
A kid-friendly veggie recipe perfect for pretty baby carrots or any colorful root vegetable
Who needs a bowl of candies when you have these beauties at the table! For the prettiest dish, check out your local farmers’ market for a first-rate selection of baby carrots in a variety of colors: creamy white, bright orange, deep purple, sunshine yellow. If baby carrots aren’t available, try this same method with any root vegetable that looks good at the market.Serves 4–6

You’ll Need:
1 lb (500 g) baby carrots, preferably a variety of colors1 tbsp canola oil1 tbsp honey1?2 tsp salt

1.Peel the carrots and trim down the leafy tops but leave them whole.

2.In a nonstick frying pan, heat the oil over medium heat. Add the carrots and cook, shaking the pan often to ensure they cook evenly, until they begin to soften, about 5 minutes. Drizzle the honey over the carrots, toss to coat evenly, and then continue to cook until just tender, 2–3 minutes longer.

3.Season with the salt, transfer to a platter, and serve.

Easy Asian Fish Cakes
Light, zesty Asian-inspired fish cakes that are easy to make and perfect for a quick family dinner
These toothsome but light, zesty cakes are a great way to get everyone to like fish. You can vary the ingredient amounts in the sauce to your taste; try adjusting the garlic or ginger to bring out different flavors. Susie’s Tip: These cakes freeze beautifully for up to 2 months, so make a bunch ahead of time and have them on hand for a play date that goes into dinnertime. Serves 4–6

You’ll Need:
2 lb (1 kg) cod fillets, cut into 1-inch (2.5-cm) pieces2 large eggs1?2 cup (1?2 oz/15 g) panko bread crumbs, plus 1 cup (1 oz/30 g) for dredging1?4 cup (1?3 oz/10 g) finely chopped fresh cilantro4 green onions, white and tender green parts only, thinly sliced2 tbsp peeled and grated fresh ginger1 tbsp lime zest2 cloves garlic, minced1?2 tsp fish sauce2 tsp kosher salt1 tsp freshly ground pepperCanola oil for fryingSweet Chile Dipping Sauce (below) for serving

1.Put the fish in a food processor and pulse just until uniformly minced, about 10 times. Be careful not to overprocess or the fish will turn into a paste. Transfer to a large bowl and add the eggs, the 1?2 cup bread crumbs, the cilantro, green onions, ginger, lime zest, garlic, fish sauce, salt, and pepper. Using your hands or a rubber spatula, gently fold and toss the ingredients together until well combined.

2.In a nonstick frying pan, heat a splash of oil over medium-high heat. Pinch off a small piece of the fish mixture and fry until cooked through, about 1 minute. Taste and adjust the seasoning of the remaining fish mixture if needed.

3.Place the 1 cup bread crumbs in a shallow dish. Shape the fish mixture into cakes about 2 inches (5 cm) in diameter and 1 inch (2.5 cm) thick. Coat each cake thoroughly with the bread crumbs, shaking off the excess.

4.Line a rimmed baking sheet with paper towels. Pour oil to a depth of 1?2 inch (12 mm) into the frying pan and heat until hot and shimmering but not smoking. Working in batches as needed to avoid crowding, add the cakes, placing them about 1 inch (2.5 cm) apart, and fry, turning once, until golden brown and crispy, 2–3 minutes per side. Transfer to the paper towels to drain and season with salt while still warm.

5.Transfer the cakes to a platter or individual plates and serve. Pass the dipping sauce at the table.

Sweet Chile Dipping Sauce
Makes 11?2 cups (12 fl oz/375 ml)
You’ll Need:
1 cup (8 fl oz/250 ml) mayonnaise2 tbsp Thai sweet chile sauce2 cloves garlic, minced2 tbsp peeled and grated fresh ginger1?2 tsp kosher salt
1.In a small bowl, combine all of the ingredients and stir to mix well. Taste and adjust the seasoning. Cover and refrigerate until ready to serve.

Cheesy Spinach Squares
Get your kids to eat (and love) their spinach with these cheesy, nutrient-packed spinach squares
These delicious squares are nutrient packed: spinach is a good source of protein, calcium, fiber, iron, niacin, zinc, and vitamins A, C, K, and B6. Nevertheless, kids love these treats! Two cheeses complement the spinach perfectly, so the issue of  “eating your vegetables” may never come up. Serves 6­–8

You’ll Need:
2 tbsp unsalted butter, melted 3 large eggs 1 cup (8 fl oz/250 ml) whole milk 1 cup (5 oz/155 g) all-purpose flour 1 tsp baking powder 1 tsp kosher salt1 lb (500 g) Cheddar cheese, shredded  1 lb (500 g) chopped frozen spinach, thawed and drained1?4 cup (1 oz/30 g) grated Parmesan cheese

1.Preheat the oven to 375°F (190°C). Line a 9-by-13-inch (23-by-33-cm) rimmed baking sheet or baking dish with parchment paper. Pour the melted butter into the prepared pan and spread to coat evenly.

2.In a large bowl, beat the eggs until well blended. Whisk in the milk, flour, baking powder, and salt. Add the Cheddar and spinach and stir until combined. Pour the spinach mixture into the prepared pan and spread in an even layer. Sprinkle the Parmesan evenly over the top.

3.Bake until the top is lightly browned and the juices are bubbling, 30–40 minutes. Transfer to a wire rack and let cool until just warm to the touch. Cut into 2-inch (5-cm) squares and serve.

 

Chopped Salad for Kids
A healthy vegetable-packed chopped salad that’s kid-friendly and easy to whip up
Loaded with a garden’s worth of vegetables—bell peppers, tomatoes, cucumbers, greens—and dressed with a bright lemon-oregano vinaigrette, this salad is a hearty meal-in-a-bowl. The addition of chickpeas gives it protein and fiber for more energy throughout the day, and a big dose of folate, a water-soluble B vitamin that helps build and maintain new cells. Serves 4­–6

You’ll Need:
Lemon-Oregano VinaigretteGrated zest of 3 lemons Juice of 4 lemons 1?3 cup (1 oz/30 g) dried oregano 2 tbsp Dijon mustard 1 heaping tbsp grated Parmesan cheese 2 tsp kosher salt 1?2 tsp freshly ground black pepper1?2 cup (4 fl oz/125 ml) olive oil 4 cups (4 oz/125 g) loosely packed baby arugula6 plum tomatoes, seeded and diced2 red bell peppers, seeded and diced1 English cucumber, seeded and diced1 red onion, diced1?2 lb (250 g) fresh mozzarella cheese, diced

1.To make the vinaigrette, combine the lemon zest and juice, oregano, mustard, Parmesan, salt, pepper, and olive oil in a jar, cover tightly, and shake vigorously until emulsified. Alternatively, whisk together all of the ingredients in a bowl until emulsified. Taste and adjust the seasoning. Set aside. (The dressing can be made up to 1 week in advance and stored in a tightly covered jar in the refrigerator.)

2.Place the arugula in a large serving bowl. In a second large bowl, combine the tomatoes, bell peppers, cucumber, onion, and mozzarella and toss gently to mix. Pour about 3?4 cup (6 fl oz/180 ml) of the vinaigrette over the vegetable mixture and toss gently again to coat thoroughly. Taste and add a little more vinaigrette, if needed.

3.Add the vegetable mixture to the serving bowl with the arugula, toss gently to combine, and serve.

Frozen Fruit Pops
Easy-to-make fruit pops that are extra light and refreshing with a hint of herbs
This is a fun and fast summer recipe that is both light and refreshing. Mix and match your favorite fruits and herbs. We like using mint and basil for their sweet tones and invigorating aromas. Susie’s Tip: Use ice-cube trays and tongue depressors from the drugstore if you don’t have the molds. Add the tongue depressors after the ice pops have begun to set. Each recipes makes 6 ice pops

You’ll Need:
Simple Syrup 1 cup (8 oz/250 g) sugar1?2 cup (4 fl oz/125 ml) waterPineapple-Mint Pops
2 tbsp simple syrup6 cups (21?4 lb/1.2 kg) cubed fresh pineapple, plus juices from cutting1?4 cup (2 fl oz/60 ml) water6 large fresh mint leavesSmall pinch of kosher saltStrawberry-Watermelon-Basil Pops
2 tbsp simple syrup2 cups (8 oz/250 g) hulled and quartered strawberries4 cups (11?4 lb/625 g) peeled and cubed seedless watermelon, plus juices from cutting 1?4 cup (2 fl oz/60 ml) water 6 large fresh basil leavesSmall pinch of kosher salt

1.To make the simple syrup, in a small saucepan, combine the sugar and water over medium-high heat. Bring to a simmer, stirring until the sugar is completely dissolved, about 5 minutes. Remove from the heat and let cool. You should have 1 cup (8 fl oz/250 ml). Store unused simple syrup in the refrigerator in a tightly covered jar for up to 2 weeks.

2.To make the pops, combine all the ingredients for the recipe of your choice in a blender or food processor and process until the fruit is entirely puréed and the mixture resembles a frothy juice. Taste and adjust the seasoning, adding a tiny bit more salt if the flavors seem to need a boost or more simple syrup for a sweeter ice pop.

3.Pour the ice-pop base into a standard 6-section ice-pop mold, 2 standard ice-cube trays, or any molds of your choice.

4.If using an ice-pop mold, freeze until completely set, at least 4 hours. If using ice-cube trays, freeze for about 1 hour and then insert wooden sticks or short skewers into the center of each pop and freeze until completely set, about 1 hour longer.


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